Monday, August 8, 2011

Why You Need To Plant Good Seeds Early In Your Life


Surprise: My Soulfood today isn’t too long. (Okay, it’s still 4 pages. But at least, it’s not my usual 10 pages!)
Because I have a very simple yet powerful message for you.
Today, I’d like to talk about the Season of Autumn.
Autumn represents ages 41 to 60.
I know I look like I’m 25 (at least, that’s what my friends tell me whenever I treat them out for lunch). But I’m actually turning 45 this July.  (I’m shocked as you are.)  So yes, I’m in the autumn of my life. 
To me, autumn represents harvest
My age is the age of reckoning. 
At my age, I’m harvesting what I’ve planted all these past years—good or bad. The Bible says people will reap exactly what they sow(Galatians 6:8). If I planted good, I’ll be harvesting good. If I planted bad, I’ll be harvesting bad. 
Today, I’d like to talk to those who are younger than me. My main message? Be careful with what you plant in your garden.
Here’s the truth: What you plant in your garden in your teens and twenties is what you’ll harvest in your forties and fifties and sixties…
Let me give you three examples:
1. Your body is a garden. 
2. Your family is a garden. 
3. Your finances are a garden. 
Let’s begin.
1. Your Body Is A Garden

One day, I was talking to a priest.
He said he started smoking in the seminary. Ironically, he said it was the priests who taught him how to smoke. He started when he was 17 years old. And he smoked for the next 33 years. He usually finished 2 packs a day. When friends told him to stop, he’d say, “I’m a priest. I don’t have a woman in my life. Let me have my cigarette!”
But as the years went by, his “smoker’s cough” became very bad. When he hit 50, he finally stopped because his doctor told him that, “You have emphysema.”
But it was too late.
When I met him, he was in his fifties but he was like in his seventies. He couldn’t take a few steps without losing his breath. Many days, he couldn’t celebrate Mass anymore, because he wasn’t strong enough.
I felt so sad for this man.
If you’re young, I urge you to plant the right seeds in the garden of your body. Because you’ll be eating the fruits of what you planted.
Another example? Don’t ever make the mistake of saying, “I can eat what I want to eat. I’m young anyway.”
As I write this article, my mother is in the hospital. She was rushed there two days ago because she had difficulty breathing—because of phlegm in her breathing pipe. She’s much better now. But it made me realize how hard it is to make someone healthy if they’re already advanced in age.
Recently, I’ve taught my mother how to eat right. At my advice, she’s also avoiding meat and eating mostly vegetables now.
But her problem is that she’s already 86. Her body is already weak. Changing her diet now won’t make her healthy overnight. It won’t be easy to flush out all the toxins she’s ingested all these years. I wish we worked on her diet when she was 20 or 30 or 40 years old. (But I wasn’t yet alive!)
Because what you eat in your 20’s or 30’s will manifest in your body in your 40’s and 50’s and 60’s.
If you’re young today, I urge you to eat the right food nowwhile you’re young. Change into a healthy diet today! So that you’ll harvest health when you grow older.
The same principle works in your family life as well…
2. Your Family Is A Garden Too
I know of a guy who is exactly my age—45 years old. 
Twenty years ago, he abandoned his wife and 3 kids for a younger woman. He just walked out of the house. Later on, he tried reconciling with his kids, but it was very difficult.
Today, he is reaping what he has sown. Some of his kids are all making the wrong choices, going with the wrong crowd.
I’m not saying that all broken families will produce broken kids. That’s not true. Some of my friends come from broken families, but God has healed them and they’re living very successful lives.
But I’m just pointing to a very important fact: Be careful with what you plant in the garden of your family life.  
Yesterday, I visited Mom in the hospital. My three sisters were there. It was such a beautiful sight. We talked, we laughed, and we swapped stories with her. 
She was surrounded by so much love!
Why? Because all her life, my mother planted love in her children’s hearts. She raised us up well. She spent time with us. And she’s now harvesting what she planted a long time ago.


             My final example? 
The principle works in your financial life too…
3. Your Finances Are A Garden
After my financial seminar, a 70-year old man said, “Bo, where were you when I needed you? Where were you 40 years ago?”
I said, “40 years ago, I was playing marbles and spider wrestling and patentero.”
He sighed, “Bo, I wish someone told me 40 years ago what you’re telling me now.”
The old man told me his sad story. He worked all his life and retired as manager of a huge food company. But he never saved. Using the language of my talk today, he never planted in his garden. Today, he is very poor. He can’t even buy his own medicines. 
He also mentioned that his kids were very kind and always gave him money. But he just felt bad that he still bothers them for his needs.
When he left the seminar, his burning resolution was to bring his kids and grandkids to attend my seminar.
He was also telling me how struck he was when I explained (in the seminar) that my two boys, Bene and Francis—age 11 and 6—are now investing in the Stock Market. For example, though Francis isn’t earning yet, he invests the Christmas money gifts from his Ninangs and Ninongs (godparents) into his Stocks.  If he keeps it up, he’ll be a millionaire when he reaches 18. My kids are planting very early. And their harvest will be bigger.
Friend, you need to plant early in the garden of your finances.
Teach your kids to invest.
Plant financial literacy into their lives.
Let me say it again: Be careful with what you plant in the garden of your life!

May your dreams come true,
Bo Sanchez

Sunday, August 7, 2011

You’re Like A Pencil


            I’ll keep it short today.
I read this analogy somewhere, written by a very prolific, famous guy (Mr. Anonymous), so this isn’t an original idea.
However, I rearranged it completely and added my own thoughts. 
In other words, I perfected it.
Says who? Two brilliant people: My mother and my wife. And don’t even try to disagree with them.  Trust me. It won’t work. I’ve learned the hard way.
Okay, back to my topic. 
Here are the five things that are common between you and a pencil…
1. A Pencil Has Purpose
God made a pencil to make its mark in this world. Early on, it must establish its purpose—it’s not a backscratcher, or a toy that you twirl around your finger, or a can opener, or (sorry for the grossness) an ear cleaner…
       If a pencil diverts its purpose, it will destroy its very existence. If you use it for something else, it will endanger its life. The pencil gets broken and you won’t be able to write anymore.
       In the same way, you need to establish your purpose. You can’t be distracted, or you endanger your very existence. You must be focused on one thing. What is your one thing?
       I don’t know about you, but I like to be with people of purpose. Who know their one thing. Because they are focused on one thing, they are excellent people. They move with direction.
       I ask you again: What’s your one thing?
2. A Pencil Has Priority
The inside of a pencil is more important than the outside of the pencil. Because the insides are connected to its purpose. On the outside, it could be have dirt, have bite marks, have chipped paint, but that doesn’t matter as long as its insides are working.
       Like the pencil, your purpose is connected to what’s inside you, not what’s outside you. 
What am I saying? Your money or your house or your car or your watch or your cell phone won’t make you happy. It’s what’s inside you that will make you happy.
       The Divine imprint is in you. Inside you is the image and likeness of God. The Bible says “Christ dwells in you.” (Colossians 1:27) and that you are the “Temple of the Holy Spirit” (1 Corinthians 3:16).
       Value what’s in you more than what’s outside you!
3. A Pencil Needs Pain
A pencil has to go through painful sharpening if it’s to be useful. If it doesn’t go through pain, it won’t be able to fulfill its purpose.
In the same way, you need to prepare yourself to go through painful sharpening—if you want God to use you. You will go through trials to test you, teach you, and train you to be better than you were before.
Look back into your life.
There must be a reason why you went through what you went through. There’s a reason why you went through that molestation, that separation, that abortion, that deprivation, isolation, that temptation, that purgation, that tribulation…
I was molested as a child. I will not wish it on my worst enemy. Yet I am able to speak words of healing today because of the pain that I went through.
4. A Pencil Needs Perseverance
If it makes a mistake, the pencil doesn’t give up. Why? Because it knows it has an eraser. The pencil simply erases its mistakes, and moves on. It doesn’t beat itself and condemn itself and say, “Oh, I’m so terrible. Why did I make a mistake? I’m a total failure.” No such words. When it makes a mistake, it simply erases and moves on.
       In the same way, when you make a mistake, God gave you an eraser. It’s the most powerful eraser in the world. It’s called forgiveness. 
God forgives you. And asks you to forgive yourself. And asks you to forgive others. 
Use your eraser everyday!
5. A Pencil Needs Power
A pencil left by itself cannot fulfill its purpose. Because its power doesn’t come from itself but from the hand that holds it. For the pencil to make its mark in the world, it needs to allow someone’s hand to hold it. 
In the same way, you need to allow God’s hand to hold you so you can fulfill your sacred purpose.
Are you allowing God’s hand to hold you, direct you, and use you now?
       Friend, let God hold you now.
       May your dreams come true,
       Bo Sanchez

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Are You Enjoying Your Life?


Once upon a time,I didn’t believe in enjoying life.
Suffering, yes. Enjoying, no.
       I almost felt it was a sin to enjoy.
       Why? I believed that the mark of the holy person was suffering, and that the mark of a sinner was pleasure.
       Thanks be to God, my thinking has changed.
       Today, I believe that one very important way of thanking God for His blessings is enjoying those blessings. (The other important way of thanking God is by sharing them to others.) The Bible says that God richly supplies us with all things to enjoy. (1 Timothy 6:18)
       Here’s my question: Do you enjoy His blessings?
       Don’t apologize for your blessings. 
       Don’t be ashamed for your blessings. 
       Instead of being ashamed and apologizing for your blessings,proclaim the Blesser! Isaiah 63:7 says, I will tell of the kindnesses of the LORD, the deeds for which he is to be praised…
       Has God been kind to you?
If you have a family, if you have a home, if you have food on your table, then tell of the kindnesses of God…
God Isn’t Fair
Once upon a time, I used to feel guilty for being so blessed.
Here’s what I realized. God isn’t fair.
       For example, growing up, I enjoyed the love of my parents and my five sisters. My family is far from perfect, but they were always there for me. 
No doubt about it, God pampers me.
       When my father was 77 years old, he had a major accident. He spent 5 months in the ICU. We thought that was it for him. Yet my father was healed and he lived for another 11 years. 
God pampered me.
       My mother is 86 years old today, and I still enjoy my weekly dates with her. But last week, she was rushed to the hospital because of pneumonia. She’s much better now. I thank God for each day that I can be with her.
       God is pampering me.
       My marriage is blessed. My wife is God’s gift to me. I love my wife more today than I have ever loved her before.
God is pampering me.
       My spiritual life is growing. My ministry is growing. My small businesses are growing. Physically, I feel healthier than ever before. 
God is pampering me.
       In both my ministries and businesses, I work with the very best, most talented, the most incredible team on planet earth. 
God is pampering me.
Friend, here’s what I believe. 
God isn’t fair. God doesn’t play fair. God plays favorites.
You’re His favorite. He pampers you. He favors you. God is biased towards you. God skews life towards your advantage. God bends life so that He can bless you more.
But let me warn you, some people won’t like it when you’re too blessed…
Don’t Be A Crab
One day, there was a fisherman selling three pails of live crabs: American crabs, German crabs, and Filipino crabs.
       A buyer comes along and notices that two pails were covered and one wasn’t.
       “Why are only two pails covered and the other not covered?” he asked.
       The fisherman said, “I don’t have to cover the third pail. Because those are the Filipino crabs. If a crab tries to go up, the other crabs will pull him down.”
Look For Real Friends

       Let’s face it: There are people who won’t be happy when you get too blessed. There are people who feel threatened by your success. There are people who, out of envy, will just not like you anymore.
Ever since I started teaching about financial literacy, I’ve received very spicy criticisms. I’ve been criticized for becoming rich. I’ve been criticized for teaching others to become rich.
One day, a woman came up to me and said, “Bo, I used to be your fan. But not anymore. Ever since you became rich.”
I wanted to tell her (but I didn’t), “I’m happy that you’ve chosen poverty and that you’re happy with your choice.  I’m happy for you.  But don’t force me or others to choose poverty. I’ve decided to enjoy my blessings!”
       I remember my driver’s experience with his neighbors. I’ve taught him how to pay his debts, organize his finances, and invest in the Stock Market too. He now has P30,000 in his investments. That’s tiny for you but humongous for him. He’s so happy. He feels he now has a future.
       But he has a problem with a few neighbors. When he comes home with his new motorcycle, some tell him, “Parang Others ka na”. That’s very difficult to translate to English. It’s as if they’re saying, “You’re acting differently. You don’t belong to us anymore.”
       I asked him, “Have you told them about your investments?”
       He said, “No. But I think they can smell it.”
I told him, and I’m telling you now, “Don’t be afraid if some people will no longer be your friends. Because you deserve better friends. Because if a friend isn’t happy when you’re blessed, he isn’t a real friend. You need to change your friends!”
I don’t know about you, but I want my friends to be happy when I’m blessed!
If I have a new car, I want my friends to say, “Wow, God has blessed you.” Not, “Perhaps you’re becoming materialistic!” When I wear a new pair of shoes, or a new shirt, I want my friends to say, “Wow, God has blessed you.” Not, “Why are you so worldly?” When actually, behind all those negative comments is envy.
Five Ways Of Enjoying Your Harvest
Many people don’t know how to enjoy their blessings.
Today, I’d like to share with you five practical ways of doing just that:
1.         Savor Life
Today, I’m trying to perfect the art of savoring life.  Of tasting. Of relishing. Of appreciating. Of delighting.  Of slowing down. Of smelling the flowers.
More and more, I’m realizing that slow is better than fast. 
I’m realizing that single-tasking is better than multi-tasking. By focusing on one thing, I do a better job and I enjoy it more!
Friend, you’re a human being, not a human doing
So “Be”.
Be here, now. Live in the present moment. Feel the beauty and grandeur of this slice in history and enjoy it. Linger. Luxuriate. 
Live In Kairos, Not Just In Chronos
Greeks have two words for “time”. One word wasn’t enough. 
First was Chronos. And that’s what we’re familiar with. Chronos is measurable time. It’s the time told by a clock on the wall or a watch on your wrist. Chronos is 8:00am and 5:30pm and 3:25am.
Second was Kairos. We’re not familiar with Kairos. Kairos cannot be measured. Because Kairos is now. It’s indivisible. Kairos isn’t the past or the future. Kairos is the “Now”—that special “Now”—that is right in front of you.
I believe that though you can’t control Chronos, you canexpand Kairos by practicing to be more present in your “Now”.
The Bible says, This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it (Psalm 118:24). The Bible didn’t say, “Yesterday was the day” or “Tomorrow will be the day” but “This is the day.” Now!
I’ve noticed that some people in rural areas still live in Kairos. 
One day, I took a trip to a smallish town down south. I noticed that people there have all the time in the world. I was walking on the street, and total strangers would chitchat with me. They were not in a hurry.
One woman, who gave me the most beautiful toothless smile, asked me where I came from and what I was doing there. And when I said, “And how’s your life?” she told me stories about her husband, her 5 kids, her in-law, even her grandfather’s ingrown toenail problem.
And I noticed that the toothless woman was happy.
A Little Tip
Let me give you a very practical tip on savoring life.
Are you ready? Here it is: Don’t rush your eating.  
Don’t merely swallow your food. Or gulp your bite. Or down your drink.   Or gobble up your meal. 
Savor your food instead. Every bite. Every morsel. Every taste.
And because I chew slowly, my meals become sacred. While chewing slowly, I enjoy tranquility. Peace. Happiness. I feel God is my dinner guest and He’s eating with me.
In the same way, don’t rush your living. Taste all of life!
2.         Simplify Pleasures
There’s a big difference between being rich and feeling rich.
One day, I visited one very wealthy guy—let’s call him Bill for Billionaire. He owned large tracks of lands. So large that if you put them together, I bet it will be a small province.
But when I talked to Bill, I really felt he was very poor. He described to me how his family was a mess. How his marriage was a one big joke. They hardly talk to each other, much less love each other. His kids, now all grown up, don’t talk to him or even to each other. 
Bill was very miserable.
After talking to him, I felt so much pity for him.
Friend, there’s a difference between being rich and feeling rich. You don’t have to be a billionaire to enjoy the billionaire’s life.
Billionaires drive very expensive cars worth P8 Million. 
But I just bought a second-hand car worth P600T, and I feel like I’m a Billionaire.   I enjoy my car so much, I feel very rich.
Billionaires live in mansions. But I live in a house that is so small, it can all fit one of Bill’s bedrooms—but I feel like I’m a Billionaire. I told my wife I have no plans of making it bigger. Because one day, my kids will grow up and have their own families.   And who will be left at home? My bride and I. By that time, my small house will be perfect for us.
God invented pleasure. Bliss. Fun. Joy. Happiness.
In my life, I’ve discovered that simple pleasures are the best pleasures in the world. Because they’re simple, you can experience these pleasures again and again.
I take pleasure taking a quiet walk around the village. How much is that? Except for a pair of rubber shoes, not much.
I take pleasure reading a good book in a quaint coffee shop. How much is that? A book and a cup of coffee. Many times, I don’t drink the coffee. I just smell it. The feeling is wonderful.
And most of all, I take pleasure in my relationships…
3.         Strengthen Relationships
Yesterday, I read my son’s Dinosaur book for him.
Francis is 6-years old and he loves dinosaurs. He can tell you the difference between a Brontosaurus and a Brachiasaurus, between a Tyranosaurus and an Allosaurus.
Out of habit, I read the lines quickly. Sometimes, I skipped a few lines. So I could get it over with and do more important things—like my work.
But in the middle of my reading, I suddenly had a flash of insight. It was as though God spoke to me in a very clear way. He said, “Bo, is there anything greater than what you’re doing now?  This is one of the most magical things you’ll ever do in your entire life. Because this moment will never be repeated. You’re not just reading a book to your 6-year old boy. You’re loving him. You’re giving yourself to him. You’re telling him that he’s the most important person in your life. Right this moment, you’re shaping the way he sees himself. You’re shaping the way he sees Me. You’re shaping the way he sees life.”
So I read slowly. I forgot chronos time. I started living inkairos time. We had so much fun. After I read the book, my 6-year old put his arm around me and said, “Thanks Daddy!”
Believe me, those two words were worth a billion pesos.
If I look at my life, my greatest joys are the people God has given to me. 
I take pleasure hanging out with my kids.
I take pleasure being with my wife on a window shopping trip, praying earnestly to God that it’s really just window shopping.
I take pleasure listening to my mother’s Japanese war stories.
I take pleasure laughing with my friends.  (I’m blessed to have friends who have the 10th gift of the Holy Spirit—to make people laugh!)
This is the reason why I’m rich. Because I enjoy rich relationships. My loved ones are my greatest wealth.
4.         Show Gratitude
Enjoying your blessings has nothing to do with how much are your blessings but how much you appreciate your blessings.
If you want to increase your enjoyment, increase your gratitude.
A few months ago, I met a woman who had everything—a good husband, three wonderful kids, a lovely house—yet she’s rarely happy. 
After listening to her, I learned why.  She rarely thanks God for her blessings. Instead of looking for what’s there, she’s always looking for what’s not there.
One day, a woman woke up and discovered she only has three strands of hairs on her head. “Lord, thank you that I can braid my hair today!”
The next morning, she woke up and discovered she only had two hairs on her head. “Lord, thank you that I can part my hair down the middle—one of the right and one on the left!”
The next morning, she woke up and discovered she only had one hair on her head. She said, “Lord, thank you I can wear my hair in a ponytail today!”
The next morning, she woke up and discovered she had no hair. She said, “Lord, thank you I don’t have to fix my hair today!”
Always remember: Wealth isn’t measured by how much money you have. Wealth isn’t measured by how much land, stocks, jewels, homes, or cars you have. Wealth is measured by how grateful you are.
5.         Share Generosity
There are two reasons why God blesses you.
First, because He wants you to enjoy them. Second, because He wants you to make others enjoy them too.
In the Old Testament, there was a Law called the Law of Gleaning (Leviticus 19). This Law states that when you harvest your blessings, you shouldn’t harvest everything that’s rightfully yours. You should leave leftovers for the poor.
This is the reason when I’m buying from a poor vendor, I don’t bargain. I even give a large tip.
Let me give you an example. The parents of my wife gave us their old piano. It was 40 years old and wasn’t working well. So we called for a piano tuner to come. After looking at our piano, he wrote how much he’ll charge me on a piece of paper.
I said, “Okay.”
He looked shocked. “Okay?”
“Yes, okay.”
He said, “Sir, you don’t have to pay the whole amount. I’ll give you ten percent discount.”
I laughed. “Thanks! You don’t have to do it. I want to bless you.”
“No sir, I insist. Please remove ten percent off my price.”
I was haggling that he charge more and he was haggling that I pay less. Isn’t that fun?
4 Ways Of Living
Let me end with one last message.
In a DVD player, there are four buttons. “Eject”, “Rewind”, Fast Forward”, and “Play”. These 4 buttons represents the 4 ways people live their lives.
First are those who live by the “Eject” mode. They just want to escape. And they escape through their vices and addictions. They’re running away from life.
Second are those who watch their life using the “Rewind” mode. They can’t move forward. They can’t forget the pain of the past. They’re stuck in their traumas. They’re always miserable.
Third are those who live in the “Fast Forward” mode. They are so busy. They are always in a rush. They go here and there, doing this and doing that, and they have no time to understand or appreciate the “movie” of their lives.
Fourth are those who live in the “Play” mode. These are the people who savor life. These are the people who enjoy life to the full. These are the people who are the happiest of them all.
Friend, Play!
Savor life. Simplify pleasures. Strengthen relationships. Show gratitude. And share generosity.
Enjoy God’s blessings today!
May your dreams come true,
Bo Sanchez

Thursday, May 26, 2011

Four Ingredients To Great Success


Last week, I said it’s important to plant long-term.
But planting isn’t enough. You also need to care for what you planted.
When I was in Grade school, I had a science project. I planted mongoseeds in a little pot. I watered that thing everyday. A few days later, I saw a little sprout come out. I brought it to school to show to my science teacher. I got an “A” for that project. But since the project was over, I put my pot in the backyard and totally forgot about it. A few days later, it was dead.
In the same way, it’s not enough to plant your dreams. You need to take care of the dreams you’ve planted. Planting takes one day. But working for what you planted takes many, many days.
Last week, I talked about Spring as the Season of planting. Spring represents ages 1 to 20.
Today, I’d like to talk about Summer as the Season of working. Summer is from age 21 to 40. That’s when we dive into our jobs or businesses and find our place under the sun. But it’s really anytime in your life where you’re trying to work on your dreams.
By the way, you’re God’s work. You’re God’s dream…
You’re God’s Masterpiece
The Bible says, For we are God’s workmanship. (Ephesians 2:10) In other words, you’re God’s work of art.   You’re God’s magnum opus. You’re God’s masterpiece. If God were Leonardo da Vinci, you’re His Mona Lisa. If God were Michaelangelo, you’re His Pieta. If God were Frank Sinatra, you’re the song I Did It My Way. If God were Freddie Aguilar, you’re the song Anak.
Yes, it’s true that God created the mountains and oceans and valleys and stars and suns and planets, but the Bible says that you’re more beautiful than all of them put together. 
Every fiber of your being, every sinew, every bone, every tissue, every muscle, every cell, your imagination, your intellect, your emotions, your soul, your spirit—each one is designed by God’s hand.
My point? You may have made mistakes, but you’re still God’s masterpiece. You may have messed up your life, but you’re still God’s masterpiece. You may have failed big time, but you’re still God’s masterpiece.
You’re Created To Do Good Works
Let me complete the Bible verse above: For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do… (Ephesians 2:10)
That means you’re on assignment.
One day, a man was driving a car, swerved in the wrong lane, hit one car on the right, hit another car on the left, turned around a number of times. His car was a total wreck. His car looked like a can of Coke stepped on a few times.  Bystanders looked at the warped metal that was his car and said, “The driver must be dead.” But the man stepped out of that car alive. Except for a bruise on his forehead, he was unharmed.
When he went home, he told his friends, “I didn’t die! God still must have mission for me to do!” That accident changed his life forever. He became a better father, a better husband, a better person…
But friend, you don’t need a life-threatening accident to realize that you have a sacred mission. If you’re breathing right now, it means you’ve got a Divine Assignment to fulfill.
The Bible says that when God created you, He created you to do good works. And He’s prepared them in advance. How advanced? When you were born, He gave you the raw materials you needed to do those good works.
4 Ingredients To Success
       To be successful in life, you need 4 important ingredients.
a. Purpose
b. Problems
c.   Perseverance
d. Prudence
1.Purpose
This is my favorite topic, and I’ve preached about it so many times. But frankly, I don’t think I can preach it enough. It’s the most basic principle of success. Unless you get hold of your life purpose, you’ll never taste true success.
       How do you know your life purpose? 
It’s really very simple. Some people will try to make it look confusing, but it’s not. Simply look at the “raw materials” God has given you. Because when He calls you to a mission, He’ll give you the provision to fulfill that mission. 
Specifically, look at two raw materials: To find your purpose, look at your passion and your potential
       Ask these two simple questions:
1. What are you passionate about? What revs you up? What do you love to do? What is the one thing you do that when you do it, you feel whole, happy, thrilled, relaxed, in your element, in your zone? What is the one thing you do that even if you don’t get paid, you’ll still do it?
2. What’s your potential? What’s your gift? What’s your anointing? What’s your expertise? What do you do that has the most impact on others? 
Answer these two questions and you’ll know your purpose.
2.Problems
Problems create Success.
Without problems, you cannot be successful.
Confused? Let me borrow an illustration from Seth Godin. 
To be a lawyer is a success. But to become a lawyer, you need to solve a lot of problems.
By the way, my friend lawyer told me this story. One day, in Heaven, the Pope arrived—and he met St. Peter and a bunch of angels welcoming him. St. Peter escorted him to his beautiful mansion. And as he was about to enter his mansion, a lawyer was entering heaven. And St. Peter rushed back to the Pearly Gates to welcome him. And angels—ten times the number that welcomed him—were now welcoming the lawyer too. The band was playing, trumpets were blasting, the choir was singing. And the Pope saw St. Peter bringing the lawyer to a mansion ten times bigger than the Pope’s mansion.
Later on, the Pope went up to St. Peter and said, “St. Peter, I’m not envious or anything like that. Just really curious. I’m the Pope. He’s a lawyer. When I came, you welcomed me with a small group of angels. When he came, you welcomed him with all the angels. You gave me a mansion, thank you. But you gave him a mansion that’s ten times the size of my mansion. Why?”
St. Peter said, “I apologize the seeming inequality. You see, we have many Popes in Heaven. This is the first time we’re having a lawyer in Heaven.”
Let me go back to my point: There are big problems to become a lawyer.
First, there’s the 4-year college degree. 
Second, there’s the 4-year law degree. That means memorizing a huge mountain of thick books. That means tolerating professors who are suspected to be aliens from far away planets.  
Third, there’s the Bar exam. A big test that drives some people to neurosis, psychosis, scoliosis, and halitosis.
       But imagine for a moment if becoming a lawyer had no problems. Imagine if all that’s required is filling up Attorney’s Application Form. And you’re automatically a lawyer.
       Then everyone will be a lawyer. And then it won’t be a success to be a lawyer anymore.
Here’s the equation: Problems create scarcity. And scarcity creates value. And value creates success.
       Whatever problems you’re going through will be the source of your success. Without those problems, you won’t be successful. 
Thank God for your problems!
What’s Your Problem At Work?
Your problem at work will be the source of your success.
And whoever solves the biggest problem will be the biggest success.
One day, a friend told me, “Bo, the biggest problem in my work is my boss! He’s a monster. I don’t know if he eats little children for breakfast. No mortal on planet earth one can work with him.”
I told him, “Whoever, by some miracle, can work with your boss and survive, and live to tell the tale, will be a very successful person.”
One friend told me, “Bo, I work with customer service. I really like the job except for one thing…”
I asked, “What’s that?”
“Customers.”
I told her, “Problematic customers are the source of your success.  Be known as the Expert who can pacify the most illogical, unreasonable customers. (For example: “I’m here to complain. Why does your donut have a hole in the middle?”) Be so good at it, that whenever there’s such a customer, they’ll ask you to handle it. (“Sir, the hole in the donut is there so you can insert your pointer finger in it, and with your thumb pressed on the outer rim of the donut, you’ll be able to hold it, avoid slippage, and bring it near your mouth to bite. But should you wish a donut without a hole, we’ll gladly make one for special people like you.”)
Another friend said, “Bo, I’m in accounting. I really like my job except for those days when there are discrepancies where I have to reconcile the books. If it were not for the discrepancies, I’ll be happy in my job.”
I told her, “Those discrepancies are the reason why you have a job. If there is nothing to reconcile, your company won’t need an accountant. Thank God for discrepancies!”
Do you want to be successful? Find the biggest problem in your company—and solve it.
A Butterfly’s Problem
       One day, a boy saw a cocoon with a butterfly struggling to get out. He was awed when he saw the tiny opening, and the wing of the butterfly pushing out.
       But it was exasperating to watch. The butterfly would push, then stop, then push again, and then stop again. Sometimes, it felt like the butterfly was about to give up.
       After some time of watching, the boy decided to help the butterfly. He got a pair of scissors and cut the cocoon. Without a struggle, the butterfly came out with its swollen body and small, shriveled up wings. The boy was excited. He now waited for the butterfly to straighten its wings and fly.
       But nothing happened. In fact, the butterfly lived the rest of its life crawling with its swollen body and small, shriveled up wings.
       What happened? When the boy removed the “problem” of the cocoon—it removed the very thing that would have saved the buttery. That struggle of pushing through the cocoon was God’s way of forcing the fluids in the butterfly’s body to go to its wings, causing it to stretch and fly.
       The problem was important for the butterfly’s success.
       Your problems stretch your wings. Your problems force your core gifts to come out. Your problems develop you.
The Problem With Having No Problems
       Kids who come from very rich families have a problem: They don’t have real problems.
       Everything comes so easily for them. They don’t have to study hard, because Daddy can buy the school. They don’t have to work, because Mommy gives them a credit card.
       These kids, if not guided, will be like that butterfly with the swollen body and small, shriveled up wings. Because they have no problems to solve, except what party to attend, what designer clothes to wear, what flashy car to drive, what expensive restaurant to eat in.
       They walk around crippled.
       Parents, don’t shield your kids from the regular problems of life. At a young age, let them earn their own money. Let them go through obstacles. Let them go through hard work. In time, you’ll see them flourish.
3. Perseverance
       Success isn’t based on talent, genius, education, or wealth. 
Success is based on perseverance.
       At one time, my father was in charge of accepting job applicants in his company. He wanted to help a friend of his and so asked him to apply for a job. The guy comes along, takes the exam, and gets the highest score possible. My father said no one has ever gotten that score before. It was a world record. He was a genius. So the company hired him. 
       But the man refused to accept the job. From what I heard, he went from one low-paying job after another. And he died a poor man. Why? He couldn’t handle problems. 
       There are two kinds of weightlifters in the world. There are the regular-looking guys who lift weights—not much different than your next-door neighbor. And then there are the super Body Builders who become as big as a truck.
What’s the difference between the Regulars and the Supers? They practically do the same thing—lift weights.
The difference is the last few minutes of weightlifting.
       Regular Weightlifters stop when there’s pain.
       Super Body Builders break through that threshold of pain and keep lifting weights a few minutes more. Those extra few minutes of pain spell the difference between having the muscles of Superman or the muscles of Plastic man.
       In other words, perseverance.
       If you want to be ultra successful, you need to pass through that threshold of pain. 90% of people can’t stand the pain, and give up. These are the unsuccessful people. But 10% keep going. These are the successful people.
       Will you go through the pain?
When The Going Gets Tough,
The Tough Get Going
      
       When I started in business, I lost all my money. And I lost my confidence. And worse of all, I thought I was loosing my dream. A little voice in my head said, “Give up! God doesn’t want you to be a businessman. Just stick to preaching.”
       But I didn’t give up. I plodded through. I got mentors. I studied. I persevered through those difficult years. Today, my businesses are doing well. If I didn’t persevere, I wouldn’t be where I am now as an entrepreneur.
Joshua Won Because Of Perseverance
       Remember the story I shared about the 12 spies entering the promised land—and how they chose safety over growth? All twelve of them came back telling the people of Israel what a beautiful place Canaan was, but ten of those spies said, “We can’t go there because the giants will crush us!”
       Only two spies said, “No, God will give us the land.”
       As in most situations in the world, the majority ruled. The Israelites went back into the desert. And how long were they stuck in the desert? Forty years.
       One of those two spies who said they could take the land was a young man named Joshua. And here’s what’s amazing: For forty years, he never gave up his dream of entering the promised land. And sure enough, already as an old man, Joshua was the one who led Israel into the promised land.
       Joshua persevered for 40 years.
       Can you be like Joshua? Right now, your dreams may be on hold. Many obstacles are on its path. People around you aren’t cooperative. They don’t believe in you. Will you persevere? Will you hold on? Will you keep your dream alive?
       Don’t give up. Keep working for your dream.
       4. Prudence
The fourth ingredient of success is almost the opposite perseverance.  But it really isn’t.  
Prudence means good sense. Wisdom. Discernment.
Prudence means knowing when you’re supposed to persevere and when you’re supposed to quit.
Don’t be shocked by what I’m going to say next: Successful people know when to quit.
Jesus talks about quitting:
A man had a fig tree, planted in his vineyard, and he went to look for fruit on it, but did not find any. So he said to the man who took care of the vineyard, “For three years now I’ve been coming to look for fruit on this fig tree and haven’t found any. Cut it down! Why should it use up the soil?” “Sir,” the man replied, “leave it alone for one more year, and I’ll dig around it and fertilize it. If it bears fruit next year, fine! If not, then cut it down.”(Luke 13:6-9)
God created you to bear fruit in abundance.
You were born for greatness.
But you were created to be a superstar in one or two fieldsonly. You can’t be equally great in five fields or ten fields.
It’s time to quit a field if you’ll never be a superstar in that field. It’s time to quit if you’re not using the core gift God has given you.
No, you don’t have to quit your job right away. Don’t be trigger-happy. While staying in your dead-end job, look for your dream job. Or start your dream business on the side. Quit only when your dream job is waiting for you. Or quit when your business is already earning money.
Forget Your Weakness;
Focus On Your Strengths

Focus is everything. Focus is the secret to success.
Decades ago, I used to do admin stuff for the ministry.Coordinating. Scheduling.  Organizing.  I basically bombed. I’m not very good with details. 
One day, I quit. I delegated it. Because no matter how hard I tried, I’ll never be a superstar administrator. Instead, I used my time to preach and write—and became better at them.
Decades ago, I used to do personal counseling. Total strangers would call me and we’d sit down together for hours. 
I quit that too, because no matter how hard I tried, I’ll never be a superstar counselor. Other people can do it ten times better. I noticed that after listening for 2 minutes, I start preaching. I tell the counselee what to do—which is a big booboo in counseling.  
Years ago, I used to compose worship songs. I loved doing it. But I quit that too. Believe me, it was difficult to quit. Because I was attached to it. 
But I realized that no matter how hard I tried, I’d never be a superstar songwriter. I noticed the songs I made had this perpetual 70’s feel. Musically, I was a dinosaur.
       By God’s mercy, I’m successful now because I learned to quit.
I repeat: Successful people know how to quit.
If you want to be successful, quit improving your weaknesses.
Use all your time and energy to improve your strengths.
(Note: Obviously, I’m talking about your profession here. This “quitting” doesn’t apply to your family relationships!)
       And let Him use you.
What Are You Riding?
Summer is about moving everyday towards your purpose.
People can be very busy, going here and there, doing this and that, yet if they don’t know their life purpose, they’ll always feel unhappy.
My little boys have a rocking horse. It’s really nice. My kids can ride on it and had so much fun. But when my kids became older, they no longer rode the rocking horse. They rode real horses. You can ride one for a few pesos in Tagaytay or Baguio.
There’s a giant difference between a rocking horse and a real horse. The rocking horse, no matter how much you rock, doesn’t go anywhere. The real horse moves and brings you somewhere.
Let me ask you a question: Are you riding a rocking horse or a real horse?   Everyday, do see yourself moving towards a finish line, a goal, a mission, a dream, a purpose? Or are you rocking back and forth, yet still staying in the same spot?
       May your dreams come true,
       Bo Sanchez